Are you planning to become a surrogate mother? For this, being well-prepared is the key. Surrogacy provides you with the opportunity to help couples who are unable to have children of their own. Becoming a surrogate mother is not the thing that can take light. This decision is taken after much thought and consideration. So if you are going to become a gestational surrogate, there are some factors you need to know before you begin your surrogacy journey.
This guide explores some steps you should take before becoming a surrogate.
1. Meet the Surrogacy Requirements
The primary step in preparing to become a surrogate is to meet the surrogacy requirements. These requirements typically include:
- Age range 21-40 years old
- Good physical health and maintained weight are essential.
- Had at least one healthy pregnancy
- Currently raising a child
- No significant complications in previous pregnancies
Moreover, ensure no tattoos at least 12 months prior to the surrogacy process.
2. Find a Reputable Surrogacy Agency
Gestational surrogacy is a complicated process, so it’s essential to work with a reputable agency. They have experience with the surrogate pregnancy process and provide information to help you make the best decisions for your family. A surrogate agency supports you from the beginning to the end, offering guidance and support at every step. Moreover, they have professional staff such as doctors, counsellors, and financial planners, who can connect with you.
Becoming a surrogate can be an excellent way to create a family, but it has some challenges. Working with a reputable agency ensures you’re getting the best possible support throughout the process.
3. Commit to the Time Frame
Becoming a surrogate mother required a long-term commitment. This process can take 12-18 months from start to finish. That includes the time on medical screenings, fertility treatments, the pregnancy time, and recovery. This is why it’s essential to evaluate your personal and professional life and consider whether you can make this commitment.
4. Talk to Your Family
Becoming a surrogate not only affects you but also your partner and children. Before making any decision, it’s necessary to discuss it with your family. Discuss all the things in detail, such as why you’re considering surrogacy, the process, and how it will impact your daily life. Discussing surrogacy with your family will help them understand you. And it will also ensure everyone is on the same page and comfortable with the decision.
Additionally, discussing with your family helps you get their support and understand what role they would like to play. Ultimately, the decision to become a surrogate is not personal; it’s essential to involve your family in the process.
5. Adopt Healthy Habits
Taking care of your body is also essential to meet the requirements to become a surrogate. As healthy as you are, you achieve and sustain a healthy pregnancy. You should adopt habits that help keep you healthy throughout the process. Here are some tips: Start taking prenatal vitamins
- Quit alcohol and caffeine
- Start light exercise (walking or yoga)
- Take a balanced, nutritious diet
- Regular visits with a surrogacy specialist to guide you through the process
